Hello Anakya,

                      My name is Christopher and I would like a question answered. I would like to know how my lovelife will turn out as lately that aspect in life has been rocky at best. Any help would be appreciated.

Hi

 My name is Doreen and I need guidance as to why my relations with my birth family are so complex and complicated.   I have tried to contact a brother who remains angry with me for reasons I do not understand.

Also do you see any angelic beings around me?

God bless

Doreen

Hi

I don't konw if I posted this properly but I would like some insight into my birth family.   The relations are so complex and strained between all members.  I have tried to reach out to a brother and he is still angry with me over things which I have apologised for.   I don't know what to do anymore and I find the situation very upsetting.  

Also could you tell me if I have angelic beings around me and who they are

God Bless

Doreen

Hi Anyaka,

Any insight or advice you could give me would be greatly appreciated. I am in a very difficult situation. I was in a relationship for approximately 6 1/2 years and last year I found out I was pregnant and we had a child. Upon my son's birth my SO began to act a lot different. He abruptly ended our relationship, with no good reason. We still live together, but are sleeping in separate rooms. I have reason to believe he may have cheated on me although I cannot confirm this (emotionally and/or physically). We live together because he is supporting me while I look for work. So far, I have been unsuccessful. In the mean time, he continues to send me mixed messages as to how he feels about me. I have tried to be up front with him, and would like to go to counseling to understand what is going on. I'm not sure if a relationship with him is right, but I do know that we have a child to raise whether or not we are together, and I want to do that to the best of our ability. Please help! I need to see the light and act accordingly.

Thanks from the bottom of my heart. Love and light..Stephanie

Hell Anyaka,

 My husband and I have ben separated for a year and I am looking for some advice in the situation. I feel very strongly that in time he will return but would like some guidance. Every time I even consider divorce that feeling deep down in my gut tells me not to chose that path. I am hoping this is not just wishful thinking. I have been told before that my husband and I have come together from past lives and are soulmates. I have always felt that he is my soulmate. Just not sure if this information was correct 

Thank you so much for your time

Cindy

Dear Steph,

We are always drawn to those with whom we have past life connections - especially strong emotional ones.  However, it is not always right for us to persue a relationship with someone just because we feel that link - it may be that each person concerned is here this time to learn different things which does not involve the other person. 

Life is short, and in this instance you are wasting time and energy on someone who is not ready to see and feel what you see and feel.  This will be hard for you to accept, but he has chosen differently this time.  You have more to do... and others to meet.  You must decide whether you will be comfortable simply being his friend, and not persuing any romantic notions.  If this would cause you pain, then you must distance yourself from him and look forward.

Hello Cindy,

I am not given to making predictions about whether people will be together or not - mostly because there are so many variables due to free will, and because everyone's destiny is to a large degree governed by the choices they make.

Soulmates - yes.  That is correct.  However you need to understand the soulmate relationships are powerful learning curves, and just because someone is a soulmate does not mean you will "be together forever" - just until you have each learned what you need to.  The love bond between soulmates always remains, however, and it is that bond that draws each together over many lifetimes.

You are correct in your intuition that your learnings with this man have not yet been completed.  - If - you were to come together again in a relationship, you must ensure you will not repeat the same pattern that seperated you in the first place.  The lesson here is for you each to have the space and time to become stronger and more independent in yourselves so that you will not be co-dependent in a relationship together.

Dear Stephanie,

Your significant other feels trapped and cornered, and it is this that causes him to act as he does.  Though he cares for you, he feels a weight of responsibility which does not sit well with him at this time.  He wasn't ready emotionally for a child, and may not ever be.  You need to decide where to go from here, but you mustn't compromise your well-being and a happy future with your child to make him feel more comfortable with the situation.

I can tell you that your son was meant to be born to you - 'come hell or high water!'.  Regardless of what happens with your relationship.  He is a very special soul, quite an old one who was last here around the time of Christ.  A very loving and compassionate being he is, and he has a big role to play in times to come.  It is very likely he will be some kind of healer.  He is strong, and has chosen you to be his support here on earth, but he will quickly grow beyond his years because of his inner wisdom.

I cannot tell you what to do, but my strong feeling is that you need to break free in order to create a good and happy life for you and your son.  Trust that no matter what happens, the angels are always only a thought away and you will always have love and support.

Dear Doreen,

He is very emotionally insecure and feels that your presence and influence in the family will take away his sense of power.  It is his ego that feels threatened in this instance. 

I am being shown two families here.  The ones you call your 'birth' family are not the souls that you were supposed to be with during this lifetime.  You have known all of them before in past lives, but what I am being shown here is the war between the North and South in the U.S.  They were on one side, and you on another.  Though you were related in that life, they always felt you sold out on them because you chose to support the North (a connection through marriage, and the fact you did not agree with slavery).  I hope this helps to make sense of the energy between you and your birth family in this life.  Sometimes strong emotions and beliefs can carry through to subsequent lifetimes.

I need to also share with you that in your case, your birth parents gave you the opportunity to come to the earth, but that is pretty much where the agreement ends.  They are not the ones you are supposed to have love and supportive connections with in this life.

You've always felt the presence of angels, as you will remember from childhood.  You have a female angelic being with you called Adrienne.  Gabriel wishes me to tell you that your prayers have been heard and will be answered.  Have faith.

Hi Christopher,

I am being told here that you have some issues with communication.  You internalise everything, and sometimes find it difficult to express your true feelings and thoughts to others.  This is something you need to work on.  Openness is very important in a successful relationship.  It's not good for you to be with someone who is too much like you, because you'll just lock horns and reflect each others issues.

Of course in order to be able to express your feelings, you have to be attuned to them and know yourself enough to acknowledge whatever is going on.  So the lesson is to 'know thyself', as the saying goes.  When you are open and honest with yourself, then that will reflect in your relationships.  You have a lot of depth and passion and a lot to offer in a relationship, but not everyone can read minds!

If you work on what is mentioned above, there is a strong indication you will meet someone very soon who will be a good match - and a teacher in many ways.

Hello M,

Everyone senses or sees the Spirit and Angelic realms differently.  Some don't see at all, and it is merely a feeling.  A strong sense of something or a vision in the mind's eye. You cannot base your experience on anyone else's because it is so individual and is somewhat different for everyone.  I liken it to being like a group of artists all painting the same subject - each will be painting the same thing but will interpret it in their own way, according to their beliefs and understanding.

So you've got to let go of what others see and do - because that is their experience and not yours (though there could be some similarities).  When you are trying to translate what is in Spirit or the Angelic realm you must use your own communication skills to put the messages and energy into a form that others can understand.  Using language that people use today, or the person you are giving the message to uses.  Keep it simple, but try not to colour the messages and energy with your own beliefs and feelings, or you will influence it and it will not be pure.  That is where disciplines like meditation come in, because it teaches you to put 'self' aside and relax enough to channel the energy and messages without getting your consciousness in the way.  It means relinquishing control of your body to a higher power, and that takes a lot of trust and faith. 

In terms of working as a messenger and healer - you don't always get comfirmation of things, or people patting you on the back saying: "gee, that was great and so accurate!".  Mostly, it is thankless work, and sometimes you will get negative responses.  That is because you've inadvertantly pushed a button within them, so to speak, or the message or energy makes them face something they don't want to acknowledge.  Just remember that you are responsible for what you do, not what others do.

Working as a healer and/or a messenger is something that is a personal choice.  You just have to be clear on your intentions when using any spiritual gift or talent, because it carries a lot of responsibility and can have large repercussions if misused.

Oh wow! This is very powerful to me right now. I was just speaking with a friend which ironically gave me the advice to move on that I had "outgrown" him. I had also began to feel that sensation. I switched on the tv right before bed and the movie "One Fine Day" came on. For those who are not familiar with the movie, it is about a female and male single parent finding each other.  I asked my angels, God, and my spirit guide to confirm this.  And then I received your message. This news could not have come at a better time. I actually don't feel devastated, I have just realized I am more than ready to move on with my life. I wish him no ill will, I really see that I have learned all I can from this situation, and must move on or be stuck in inertia. I am very interested in a private reading, I must find a job first. But, could you give me your contact information, so I might get one in the near future.

Many thanks and hugs,

Stephanie 

Hi Stephanie,

I'm glad that you had confirmation like that.

You can get a reading through my website which you'd need to type into your browser window, when you want to go there:  http://anakya.ariana.tripod.com

Though I don't know how long I will be 'around' to do readings... there is a lot of other channelled information and teachings on the site as well, which you may find useful.

- A.

Thank you so much Anakya. You are right. I will move forward. I hope I will be able to be resilient.

Many Blessings