Thanks Anakya

In my heart I believe Ruben and I are not over and I hope my intuition is correct or I am in for a great deal of heartache but that is the choice I am making.

Cindy

hi there,

 I would just like to know if romance is ever coming for me and will I ever get my life straightened out?  Thanks!

hi there,

 I would just like to know if romance is ever coming for me and will I ever get my life straightened out?  Thanks!

 

Terri

would someone  please please stop replies to this thread coming to me via e mail!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

I have continuously tried to edit my original message which is on page 6 of this thread, Amethyst. It does not allow me to unclick the send replies to my e mail box. I have sent e mails to whoever runs this site and still nothing. I have tried to change my e mail address on here and I am still getting every reply and message to this thread. Please someone take notice and stop these e mails! ? Make me a non member I don't care, just stop these e mails!!!

I am previously married, but my husband is very controlling and i am terrified to leave him. I have met another man, but he has told me that he cannot be with me. But he has been sending me signals, which i think he is interested in me. I dont know if these are what i think or my imagination. Any advise on what to do?

Anakya,

I am in the process of leaving my husband who is a very controlling man that has put me in a place in life I was never meant to be.  During this process, I met a man who was also married and in a very similar situation.  I believe with every inch of my intuition, heart, and soul that this person IS someone I was meant to meet, connect with and fall in love with.  He reciprocates my feelings, but they are SO strong, and we are both such ethical people that we decided after about a month that we should separate until we were both free to be together.  This, being at my request, hurt him immensely and he has completely withdrawn from me, only sharing very basic information from time to time. 

I know what I feel and what I believe in my core is that he still feels as strongly for me as I do him and that we continue to share a very strong spiritual connection.  I am afraid that since we both pulled back at such an early stage and since he felt that I was just dropping him unilaterally that I may have acted rashly and wounded our future chances.  Is this the person that I am meant to find?  Has he come to the same realization that I have in the time we have been apart?  I feel that he is withdrawing because he feels it is my wish and not because it is his... does he want me to initiate contact or should I wait?  How should I proceed?

So much is at stake here and will affect the decisions I make for my future and that of my kids that I hope you are able to help me.  Thanks so much!

J

Hi Anakya,

I have a very wierd situation that doesn't seem to "go away". Approximately 6 years ago, I met a guy in my work place at that time, and we were magnetically attracted to eachother. So much so that many commented on how we would be a great couple, etc. We had a great deal in common, but we were very opposite as well. However at the time, I was in a relationship and he was in the middle of a break up, so nothing ever happened and I got a better job and left. We never ended up even dating or even really talking about our feelings for eachother. I have long moved on, and I have had times periodically when I cannot get him out of my mind. I am having an episode right now. My mother has even had dreams seeing him and I together(or someone that looks a great deal like him to a tee). She has his profession off though, in her dream the guy is a surgeon and this guy is an engineer. My mother has had visions in her sleep of where we will live and tells me this is the person I will marry. She urged me to contact and I have managed to find a facebook page and I have contacted him to say "hi". I have done meditations trying to get some clues as to who my partner in this life time is, and I kept getting men that looked a great deal like him. Is the universe trying to show me something in particular with this? I am at a loss, is this just a silly crush? Or am I just living in the past? Thank you for any insight, it will hopefully put this thing to rest once and for all.  

Stephanie

Hi Anakya,

I recently reconnected with a "old" friend, (I say this because we were first loves in 9th grade).  We hadn't seen each other for 15 years.  About a year ago, we began reconnecting  by emails, phone calls and had a few lunches when the opportunity permitted.  He lives a long distance from me.  With time, the relationship moved into a more romantic turn.  There is an powerful energy between us, this I can't deny.  Yet there are obsticals between us- namely marriages, which I would describe as unhappy for many reasons.  Lately we have dropped communication.  I am guilty of this as well.  I am so confussed, because I really value this person on a very human level.  More than romance, I enjoyed having someone to communicate with that shared common interests, as I thought he did as well.

Do you believe that we can get back on track as far as our friendship?  Was it ever meant to be a romance?

Many miscommunications have left us both a bit fearful of being honest with each other and perhaps even ourselves.  Would it be advisible for me to open up to him and explain how I am feeling, risk being vulernable?  Or should I let time pass and with it hopefully the feelings of dispair, and sadness will wither on the vine- along with any prospect of rekindling this friendship.

 Thank you in advance for your grace in this matter.

Laura

Hello,

 I wonder if you can shed some light onto the situation that has left me without friends, and where this will lead me?

 

Lonly