I am confused in my life right now and would like a reading, but it is so hard to find someone that can do a reading. Is there someone that can do one for me please?

In what why financially or emotionally?  Hun try and smile every day?

 

What is your date of birth then?  I will see what I can do for you?

 

Love Cindy xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx 

My date of birth is May 11th/ 1971 and i confused with my love life !!!!

Ila:

I am confused in my life right now and would like a reading, but it is so hard to find someone that can do a reading. Is there someone that can do one for me please?

 

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>Sending you positive thoughts and prayers, Ila

Meditate a little every day and in the midst of your inner-self you'll find the clarity of mind you so wish for right now.

Don’t be scared of meditation... if you never have done that before

>Just a minute a day would do

every day (if possible) try to still your mind for just a minute

as this habit builds up you'll begin to find it easier and easier

stay in that moment of stillness for just a minute

you and your mind would undoubtedly benefit from the experience

Think a positive affirmation every day

you'll be creating a positive aura around you, day by day…

Listen to your higher self!

The answers you seek are already within you

>Sending you Many Blessings!

M

 

If you are not happy where you are, then it is up to you to do what is necessary to change your circumstances. Your ‘right place’ is not necessarily a matter of geographical location. Being where you want to be can also refer to matters of love where improvement is desired. Whatever your desire may be, it is important that you treat it as a goal - a reachable ambition. Even though your goals may be of an external nature, the ultimate goal must be the inner feeling of satisfaction, which is what happiness really is.
 

You will find that you will  that he is one of those people who finds it hard to show his feelings and you are confused because he is hot and cold.  He is confused himself and I feel that he has had a past with a relationship that lasted a long time and he may have even been married before.  He is scared he is going to make the same mistake twice.  Reassure him and yourself at the same time.

This year, you will prosper according to the strength of your determination, the accuracy of the information you follow, and the depth of your awareness. Throughout the year, your ability to make things happen and get things done will increase. Your expectations will rise, along with your confidence and feelings of satisfaction. 

Last year was deeply emotional and/or confusing for you, but it enabled you to answer many questions about who you really are and why your life is as it is. It had to be that way so you could know what your needs really are. Now, enough is enough. It’s time to get down to business! You instinctively know that you must become stronger than you have ever been.

 So good luck lass.
 

You will get what you want and I am sure that you wont be confused just be patient.  Take care.

Well for starters, yes i am confused where my life is right now, and i have a very controlling husband, but my desires aren't as they used to be and wish for something greater. I have met a man and don't understand why i have feelings for him and i don't even really know him. I only see him time to time and can't shake these feelings. I am wondering now if this man you are talking about is him or my husband. Please can you help me ???

Dear Ila

You already have your answer. And it is all in your letter.

What: You are confused

Why: You are married and there is another man that you have feelings for

Within the confusion lies your feelings about your husband, guilt, fear, sadness, anger, etc and no matter what he has done there is that feeling of betraying him etc.

Then there are the feelings for this new man, excitement, new beginning, hopes, desires, dreams, possibilities and the feeling of being alive again.

But in all of this. . .you are absent. . .there is only these two men, one showing you what you dont want in your life and another that has created a spark in you.

You wish for "something" greater. . . that "something" is a greater you.

Look at who you are. What you value in life. What you believe in. What you want. What your dreams are. What makes you sing and laugh. What makes your life joyful. If you dont know what that is. Then it is time for you to go on a journey to discover you.

You can only meet someone halfway and if they are not willing then it is time to make changes. But only you can choose that. Your husband has his own issues that he is projecting onto you to recreate the lifecycle he is accustomed to and for you to learn from it. When you learn about self, you will be able to look at both your greater and lesser qualities with the feeling of admiration for each new aspect of yourself that you come to know.

Always remember that confusion is merely an aspect of self struggling to become known.

Also take into consideration that at the moment, there is a major shift happening in the energies around us and many peoples are going through confusing times. The energy is amplifying confusion for people to grow through and evolve from. So spend time with friends and family that increase joy in your life to balance these outer energies coming in. If you are able to have alone time, use it to feel your hearts sadness, anger, grief of times gone by. To release and not to wallow. Also use your alone time to write down all the things that you want to do. . .and do them.

All you have to do is say "YES" to yourself.

 

Well my husband has total control over my life. He won't let me work, so I have no money. I am only allowed to go visit 3 people by myself. So my choices right now are what I call grounded. I am terrified he might hurt me if I leave. I have 4 children to think about. And My father. He is not well. I can't leave him either. I have thought of a womens shelter. But I could be there for months. And my husband will still be here when I come out of there. This other man is probably my desires I wish for and want. Maybe they aren't real. But they are there and they won't go away. So here I am stuck in this life with this man. This other man has told me that we can never be, but the things he does and the way he looks at me in a crowded room, and when we are in a crowded room, he checks to see where I am, little things like that he does. So thats the main reason why I am confused. Is there something there, or is it because he knows I am married.

woah - what you describe is a pretty dangerous situation. sounds dangerous.

if for whatever reason u do go into a relationship and your husband finds out what are the consequences there?

it seems your first priority is to yourself and your children. there are many who are in your situation. i would talk to some kind of agency that helps people like you. they even have something similar to a 'witness protection' system where they help you out with anonymyity and legal prevention of letting your husband get too close. it is still a v. v. hard thing to go thru but could it be harder than the life you are already leading. i would definitely look into that.

 and yes in your present state i would not even try and make sense of ur and his feelings. people change. one day the most perfect man can turn into the most controlling one too.

take care of urself and ur loved ones first. and the more confidence you have in yourself the more you will know whether you have a foe or ally in the other person.  

oh one more thing. you can legally protect yourself where you can take care of your father without husband hurting you there.

 but you have to decide if you want to take the power back into your hands. to be the powerful person you are.  

yes you will have to deal with ur husband when u come out. but u come out a different person - not the scared, fearful person but the one who is no longer willing to put up with your husband's bs.

 i have friends whom i have helped seek help and i have volunteered with the shelters. it isnt an easy life at all - but neither was their life easy before. what they valued more than anything was their freedom to be whoever they wanted to be.

good luck. 

Hello!  I am wondering if you can do a reading for me.

I have been going through an extremely stressful last few years.  My partner of 25 years passed away.  Then, work started giving my employees a hard time.  I stood up for them and was terminated.  I had one year to go to retire.  A year later I met another man who I immediately fell in love with.  He was killed in a car accident.  That was last year.  He was 20 years younger than I am, but we looked the same age.  I am into creating things for my skin and try and take good care of myself.  It really took it's toll on me emotionally and I was a mess!  Then, recently my doggie that my first partner gave me passed away.

Can you tell me if things will ever look up for me?

 Sandy.