Hi there Valarie Anne
What a lovely name. Yes you have been going through this for 7 years and did you know that your life changes every 9 years. I would say to you this year is a chance to make your life much better by getting rid of him. I know how? You are such a softy and you feel so a lone. Your finances are difficult at the moment and I do feel for you. However, its not going to make you feel any better by what I have said. I would get a court order against him and make sure that he cannot get hold of your money. Make sure that you are not within 100 feet away from him. He has to learn lessons in life and it wont be with you as he will have to have a much harder way to learn, some how I do not think it will be in this life time.
You have been so a lone for a long time now and you feel that you have been so isolated from the human race if you know what I mean. I also see that you have had your heart broken in the past a long while a go and it made you feel so upset and so down.
Your money situation will not improve just yet as you will face a bit of hardship, sorry to tell you this. Its going to be difficult for you and it is going to be harder than you think. Just remember go to a debt free firm and see if they can help you and just try and pay the priority bills. I am sorry its not good new hun.
I also feel that you will find some one in two years time and it will be a nice man with dark hair just like you. In 3 years your finances will improve and you will feel better about life in general.
I am sorry its not really good news. God bless you hun and I hope you have had a nice holiday weekend too. It my husband and my birthday on Monday and we are 45 years old. We have been married for 22 years. My poor dog has just had an operation as she had an infected womb. My hubby has stomach flue, and my sons are not too well. My daughter is fine and she is at work.
Take care there. Oh I am from England. West Yorkshire.
Love Cindy xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx