Thanks Anakya

In my heart I believe Ruben and I are not over and I hope my intuition is correct or I am in for a great deal of heartache but that is the choice I am making.

Cindy

hi there,

 I would just like to know if romance is ever coming for me and will I ever get my life straightened out?  Thanks!

hi there,

 I would just like to know if romance is ever coming for me and will I ever get my life straightened out?  Thanks!

 

Terri

would someone  please please stop replies to this thread coming to me via e mail!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

I have continuously tried to edit my original message which is on page 6 of this thread, Amethyst. It does not allow me to unclick the send replies to my e mail box. I have sent e mails to whoever runs this site and still nothing. I have tried to change my e mail address on here and I am still getting every reply and message to this thread. Please someone take notice and stop these e mails! ? Make me a non member I don't care, just stop these e mails!!!

I am previously married, but my husband is very controlling and i am terrified to leave him. I have met another man, but he has told me that he cannot be with me. But he has been sending me signals, which i think he is interested in me. I dont know if these are what i think or my imagination. Any advise on what to do?

Anakya,

I am in the process of leaving my husband who is a very controlling man that has put me in a place in life I was never meant to be.  During this process, I met a man who was also married and in a very similar situation.  I believe with every inch of my intuition, heart, and soul that this person IS someone I was meant to meet, connect with and fall in love with.  He reciprocates my feelings, but they are SO strong, and we are both such ethical people that we decided after about a month that we should separate until we were both free to be together.  This, being at my request, hurt him immensely and he has completely withdrawn from me, only sharing very basic information from time to time. 

I know what I feel and what I believe in my core is that he still feels as strongly for me as I do him and that we continue to share a very strong spiritual connection.  I am afraid that since we both pulled back at such an early stage and since he felt that I was just dropping him unilaterally that I may have acted rashly and wounded our future chances.  Is this the person that I am meant to find?  Has he come to the same realization that I have in the time we have been apart?  I feel that he is withdrawing because he feels it is my wish and not because it is his... does he want me to initiate contact or should I wait?  How should I proceed?

So much is at stake here and will affect the decisions I make for my future and that of my kids that I hope you are able to help me.  Thanks so much!

J

Hi Anakya,

I have a very wierd situation that doesn't seem to "go away". Approximately 6 years ago, I met a guy in my work place at that time, and we were magnetically attracted to eachother. So much so that many commented on how we would be a great couple, etc. We had a great deal in common, but we were very opposite as well. However at the time, I was in a relationship and he was in the middle of a break up, so nothing ever happened and I got a better job and left. We never ended up even dating or even really talking about our feelings for eachother. I have long moved on, and I have had times periodically when I cannot get him out of my mind. I am having an episode right now. My mother has even had dreams seeing him and I together(or someone that looks a great deal like him to a tee). She has his profession off though, in her dream the guy is a surgeon and this guy is an engineer. My mother has had visions in her sleep of where we will live and tells me this is the person I will marry. She urged me to contact and I have managed to find a facebook page and I have contacted him to say "hi". I have done meditations trying to get some clues as to who my partner in this life time is, and I kept getting men that looked a great deal like him. Is the universe trying to show me something in particular with this? I am at a loss, is this just a silly crush? Or am I just living in the past? Thank you for any insight, it will hopefully put this thing to rest once and for all.  

Stephanie

Hi Anakya,

I recently reconnected with a "old" friend, (I say this because we were first loves in 9th grade).  We hadn't seen each other for 15 years.  About a year ago, we began reconnecting  by emails, phone calls and had a few lunches when the opportunity permitted.  He lives a long distance from me.  With time, the relationship moved into a more romantic turn.  There is an powerful energy between us, this I can't deny.  Yet there are obsticals between us- namely marriages, which I would describe as unhappy for many reasons.  Lately we have dropped communication.  I am guilty of this as well.  I am so confussed, because I really value this person on a very human level.  More than romance, I enjoyed having someone to communicate with that shared common interests, as I thought he did as well.

Do you believe that we can get back on track as far as our friendship?  Was it ever meant to be a romance?

Many miscommunications have left us both a bit fearful of being honest with each other and perhaps even ourselves.  Would it be advisible for me to open up to him and explain how I am feeling, risk being vulernable?  Or should I let time pass and with it hopefully the feelings of dispair, and sadness will wither on the vine- along with any prospect of rekindling this friendship.

 Thank you in advance for your grace in this matter.

Laura

Blessings Anakya,

I guess my question is regarding Spiritual connections vs/ physical connections. I am in this "cycle" with a beautiful Spirit who at this time, in this body, is walking a difficult path. I find myself feeling torn between loving support and self preservation. At times it feels as though I need to completely sever contact with this man so that he can take care of his life however he sees fit, but ultimately the pendulum swings and we end up "dancing" again.

My dream has been to open a Metaphysical Coffeehouse here in my hometown. It FEELS right, and needed :). However, I'm concerned that if he helps me with this (which would make it possible at this time), it will force our paths together even if (perhaps) they should not be.

I'd love to hear what you and your angels have to say. I've left out any details because I'm sure your angels know them anyway

Thanks for your time,

RavenWolf

 

Dear Anakya,

It's been a very difficult time for me.  I was in a relationship of over a year which showed every indication of heading towards marriage.  Parents approved, friends approved, and they assisted me in finding a job so that we could be together.  The day before I was to accept that new job, my boyfriend had a nervous breakdown.  He said he wasn't ready for me to move in with him, and that he needed time away to think things through.  He's a 40 year old bachelor, never been married before nor engaged. It's been a month and a half now, and we have kept in touch through e-mail, but we haven't gotten together again face to face for quite some time.  His life, meanwhile, has been on a very tough downward spiral with just one terrible thing after another hitting him, and I feel him drawing further and further into his cave - he's having a hard time coping with so much.  I'm frustrated for us.  I do believe we are supposed to be together - but it seems like a long way off if he withdraws further each time a crisis hits.  Help.  How do I help him, how do I help myself, are we meant to be together eventually as a married couple, or am I wrong to wait for him?  My heart is torn in two over this.

Thanks for your guidance

Amy 

 

hi i have been confused with person thst i like. my ex tells my stuff about that guy and says that he talks with him but the guy i like says no he doesnt talk with him, but there are things my ex knows that there is no way for him to know. i just want to find someone who will love me and careabout me and i am hoping it is this guy that i like.i am just sooooo confused?

 

I have been expierencing this awakening for a long while. I startedusing yoga and its like I am in the fast lane. I know my twin flame is close but it is this puzzel I am putting together. Here recently I received a black male kitten who is my shadow. Now just about everywhereI go there a black cat who wants to follow me.  A friend of mine had kittens dropped at her house what do you know black cat.  I went to a friend of mine farm what do you know black female kitten dropped off the day before.  It is getting worse. What does this mean. Or am I being to overly sensitive.

CJ11

Hi....I think this is very thoughtful and nice of you to post this.  I've been meditating for the past few months and have met my guide.  He's wonderful and beautiful and helps me in many ways, and i truly trust him.  Sometimes I wonder though if it's my imagination.  I did ask where he was from and I found the place, so this helped me believe and trust.  I believe in God and his angels.  I surround myself with love and protection all the time.  So do you think this could be my imagination?  I would really appreciate your feedback......thanks

Gabriella

I am really stuck in this big hole with 4 walls around and very scared if i decide to climb over one of them. I am in a marriage with a very controlling husband. I mean controlling. I am terrified to divorce him of what might happen to me. I don't want to go to a women's shelter. He will still be here when i come out. I have been talking to my Priest and he tells me i need counseling. I am not sure what he means by that, but because the only way to talk to him is through emails. He keeps telling me that, and that there is nothing he can do for me anymore. I was just looking for someone to talk to. I don't know what to do anymore. Do i take the chance and get a separation, or stick it out and be unhappy?

I was in your situation as well.  Instead I had no fear, prayed to God for protection and I did it....I divorced my psycho husband.  And you know what, I realized that all his threats were "NOTHING" and now he realizes that I will not let him get to me, I'm much stronger.  Of course a priest is not going to tell you to divorce.  I would listen to your heart.  Don't be afraid....there is no reason to live this life unhappily.  It's not fair to you.